When Newlyweds Run Away From Their Husbands and Prefer Ex-Lovers
Fahmi Husaeni (26) has decided to divorce Anggi Anggraeni (21), the woman he recently married.
The man from Mekarsari Village, Rancabungur District, Bogor, West Java, decided to divorce Anggi because it turned out that Anggi preferred his ex-girlfriend, AL.
Anggi even ran away the day after the contract to meet her ex-boyfriend.
This story begins on Monday (26/6/2023) afternoon or the day after the marriage contract, Anggi said goodbye to take orders for geprek chicken in front of his house alley with a cash on delivery (COD) system.
While away taking orders, Anggi still managed to send messages with Fahmi via WhatsApp.
In his message, Anggi admitted that he was annoyed because the courier who delivered the chicken he ordered didn't come.
However, after waiting until evening, Anggi never came home.
Fahmi then found Anggi's motorcycle registration certificate not far from where Anggi bought the geprek chicken.
The family and Fahmi then looked for Anggi in various places, including asking Anggi's ex-boyfriend, AL.
However, AL admitted that he did not know Anggi's whereabouts. In fact, he had cried for fear of being blamed.
The family finally reported Anggi's disappearance to the Rancabungur Police, Tuesday (6/27/2023).
No problem
Fahmi admitted that there was no problem between him and Anggi.
Even though they had only been dating for five months and decided to get married, it was the will of both of them and there was no element of coercion.
The same thing was conveyed by Anggi's father, Yudi Suhendra. Yudi said his son's marriage was not an arranged marriage.
"So when Anggi decided to marry the husband of her choice, her parents could only give their blessing and Anggi introduced her future husband directly if she wanted to get married. If you like it, go ahead," he said.
Anggi and Fahmi also compactly prepared their wedding needs. Apart from that, Anggi did not show any strange signs before marriage.
Claimed in Jakarta
After disappearing for more than a week, Anggi then sent his mother a message via WhatsApp, Tuesday (4/7/2023).
Anggi claimed to be in Jakarta. However, he did not explain the reasons for being in the capital.
"The person concerned has informed his mother that he is in good condition and is in Jakarta," said Head of Public Relations of the Bogor Police, Iptu Desi Triana to Kompas.com, Thursday (6/7/2023).
Anggi also told his mother that he would come home when his condition calmed down. His cell phone was deactivated again.
Run away meet ex-lover
Then on Saturday (8/7/2023), Anggi was found to be in Bandung, West Java.
Anggi was there to meet her ex-boyfriend AL, who previously admitted that he did not know the whereabouts of the newlyweds.
The Rancabungur Police then held mediation and summoned three parties, namely the families of Fahmi, Anggi, and AL. The mediation was also attended by the Head of Mekarsari Village.
During mediation, Fahmi decides to divorce Anggi. He also asked AL to marry Anggi.
"That Fahmi, as the legal husband of Anggi Anggraeni, has stated that he is divorcing his wife," said Rancabungur Police Chief Iptu Hartanto in a written statement, Saturday.
"Leave it to the Navy so that the two of them are married," Hartanto added.
Hartanto said the problem was resolved amicably in a statement and the parties agreed not to sue at a later date.
Saat Pengantin Baru Kabur Tinggalkan Suami dan Lebih Pilih Mantan Kekasih
Fahmi Husaeni (26) memutuskan menceraikan Anggi Anggraeni (21), wanita yang baru saja dinikahinya.
Pria asal Desa Mekarsari, Kecamatan Rancabungur, Bogor, Jawa Barat, itu memutuskan menceraikan Anggi karena ternyata Anggi lebih memilih mantan kekasihnya, AL.
Anggi bahkan kabur sehari setelah akad demi menemui mantan pacarnya itu.
Cerita ini bermula pada Senin (26/6/2023) sore atau sehari setelah akad nikah, Anggi pamit untuk mengambil pesanan ayam geprek di depan gang rumahnya dengan sistem cash on delivery (COD).
Selama pergi mengambil pesanan, Anggi masih sempat berkirim pesan dengan Fahmi melalui WhatsApp.
Dalam pesannya, Anggi mengaku kesal karena kurir yang mengantar ayam pesanannya tidak kunjung datang.
Namun, ditunggu sampai malam, Anggi tak kunjung pulang.
Fahmi kemudian menemukan STNK motor Anggi tak jauh dari lokasi Anggi membeli ayam geprek.
Keluarga dan Fahmi kemudian mencari Anggi ke berbagai tempat, termasuk menanyakan ke mantan kekasih Anggi, AL.
Namun, AL mengaku tidak mengetahui keberadaan Anggi. Bahkan, dia sempat menangis karena takut disalahkan.
Keluarga akhirnya melaporkan hilangnya Anggi ke Polsek Rancabungur, Selasa (27/6/2023).
Tak punya masalah
Fahmi mengaku tidak ada masalah antara dirinya dan Anggi.
Meski baru pacaran lima bulan dan memutuskan menikah, hal itu merupakan kemauan keduanya dan tidak ada unsur paksaan.
Hal serupa disampaikan ayah Anggi, Yudi Suhendra. Yudi mengatakan, pernikahan anaknya bukan karena perjodohan.
"Jadi ketika Anggi memutuskan untuk menikah dengan suami pilihannya, orangtua hanya bisa merestui dan Anggi memperkenalkan langsung calon suaminya kalau mau menikah. Kalau suka sama suka silakan," ujarnya.
Anggi dan Fahmi juga kompak mempersiapkan keperluan pernikahan mereka. Selain itu, tidak ada gelagat aneh yang ditunjukkan oleh Anggi sebelum menikah.
Mengaku di Jakarta
Setelah menghilang lebih dari sepekan, Anggi kemudian mengirimi ibunya pesan melalui WhatsApp, Selasa (4/7/2023).
Anggi mengaku berada di Jakarta. Namun, dia tidak menjelaskan alasan berada di ibu kota.
"Yang bersangkutan sudah mengabari ibunya bahwa kondisinya baik-baik saja dan ada di Jakarta," kata Kasi Humas Polres Bogor Iptu Desi Triana kepada Kompas.com, Kamis (6/7/2023).
Anggi juga mengabari ibunya bahwa dia akan pulang jika kondisinya sudah tenang. Ponselnya pun kembali dinonaktifkan.
Kabur temui mantan kekasih
Kemudian pada Sabtu (8/7/2023), Anggi diketahui berada di Bandung, Jawa Barat.
Keberadaan Anggi di sana untuk menemui mantan kekasihnya AL yang sebelumnya mengaku tak mengetahui keberadaan pengantin baru tersebut.
Polsek Rancabungur kemudian menggelar mediasi dan memanggil ketiga pihak, yaitu keluarga Fahmi, Anggi, dan AL. Mediasi juga dihadiri Kepala Desa Mekarsari.
Saat mediasi, Fahmi memutuskan untuk menceraikan Anggi. Dia juga meminta agar AL menikahi Anggi.
"Bahwa Fahmi selaku suami sah dari Anggi Anggraeni menyatakan untuk menceraikan istrinya," ujar Kapolsek Rancabungur Iptu Hartanto melalui keterangan tertulis, Sabtu.
"Menyerahkan kepada AL agar keduanya dinikahkan," kata Hartanto menambahkan.
Hartanto mengatakan, permasalahan tersebut diselesaikan secara kekeluargaan di atas surat pernyataan dan para pihak sepakat tidak akan menuntut di kemudian hari.