Between Hijab And Morals.
Never take off your hijab with the excuse that you are not capable of good behavior.
Never criticize someone's hijab and religion with bad morals.
Aren't you not going to remove your tongue on the grounds that you haven't been able to speak well?
Isn't a Muslim still obliged to perform prayer, fasting, zakat, pilgrimage even though his morals are not good?
Why look badly at religious obligations when individual actions are the problem?
Why criticize religion and its hijab when morals are supposed to be the main problem?
Keep wearing the hijab and keep improving yourself, improving your morals.
Remember, do not care about human words because Allah will not ask other people's words to you, but Allah will ask you to be held accountable for the religious obligations that He has commanded you.
Straighten your intentions, pray and continue to improve yourself, istiqomah to follow the divine path of the Rabbi
No buts, no later
May Allah have mercy.
Self Improvement Needs Process
Don't "judge" those who wear hijab but still have bad morals.
Because all self-improvement needs a process.
Moreover, moral improvement.
Moral improvement takes a lifetime and everyone has different difficulties in the process.
So respect those who have tried to obey by covering their genitals with their hijab.
And pray that Allah will guard his morals and Allah will make it easy for him to fix them.
Not even questioning her hijab because of bad morals, because the two are different.
Sheikh Maulana Saad was once asked,
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"Why are there still our brothers who have been improving themselves for so long but some of the bad attitudes are still there?"
He also replied,
"Be patient with them, a bad attitude is like smoke from a burning wood fire, even though the flame has disappeared, the black smoke is sometimes still there"
"If you have already sinned, then don't give up on reaching istiqomah to your Lord because maybe, that is the last sin that God has destined for you"
(Shaykh Ibn 'Atha'illah)
#pray yourself
Antara Hijab Dan Akhlak
Jangan pernah mencopot hijabmu dengan alasan kamu belum mampu berkelakuan baik.
Jangan pernah mencela hijab dan agama seseorang dengan alasan akhlaknya yang tidak baik.
Bukankah kamu tidak akan mencopot lidah kamu dengan alasan kamu belum mampu berkata baik?
Bukankah seorang muslim tetap wajib menunaikan ibadah shalat, puasa, zakat, haji meskipun akhlaknya belum baik?
Kenapa memandang buruk kepada kewajiban agama ketika perbuatan individunya yang jadi masalahnya?
Kenapa mencela agama dan hijabnya jika harusnya akhlaknya yang jadi masalah utamanya?
Tetaplah berhijab dan teruslah memperbaiki diri, memperbaiki akhlak.
Ingatlah jangan pedulikan perkataan manusia karena sesungguhnya Allah tidak akan menanyakan perkataan orang lain kepadamu, tapi Allah akan menanyakan pertanggungjawaban atas kewajiban agama yang diperintahkan-Nya kepadamu
Luruskan niat, berdo'a dan teruslah memperbaiki diri, istiqomah meniti jalan Illahi Rabbi
Tanpa tapi, tanpa nanti
Semoga Allah merahmati.
Perbaikan Diri Butuh Proses
Jangan “judge” mereka yang sudah berhijab namun masih berakhlak buruk.
Karena semua perbaikan diri butuh proses.
Apalagi perbaikan akhlak.
Perbaikan akhlak butuh waktu seumur hidup dan setiap orang punya kesulitan berbeda-beda dalam prosesnya.
Maka hargailah ia yang sudah berusaha taat dengan menutup aurat dengan hijabnya.
Dan do'akanlah agar akhlaknya Allah jaga dan Allah beri kemudahan dalam memperbaikinya.
Bukan malah mempertanyakan hijabnya sebab buruk akhlaknya, karena keduanya berbeda.
Syeikh Maulana Saad pernah ditanya,
“Kenapa masih ada saudara kita yang sudah memperbaiki diri begitu lama tapi beberapa sikap buruknya masih saja ada?.”
Beliaupun menjawab,
“Bersabarlah menghadapi mereka , sikap buruk itu seperti asap dari api kayu yang terbakar, walaupun nyala apinya telah sirna, tapi asap hitamnya terkadang masih ada”
"Apabila engkau terlanjur berbuat dosa, maka jangan engkau putus asa menggapai istiqomah kepada Rabb-mu karena boleh jadi, itulah dosa terakhir yang ditakdirkan Allah untukmu"
( Syaikh Ibn 'Atha'illah)
#ngajidiri