Things that will change your future

Things that will change your future.

1. Stop Blaming Everything

“Blaming will only waste time. No matter how much blame you put on others, and no matter how much you blame them, it will not change you” - Wayne Dyer

“All blame is a waste of time. No how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you” - Wayne Dyer

Tip: The attitude of blaming other people or something that is beyond your control is an attitude that can stop your success. Focus on accepting existing problems, stop blaming other people because that won't change you into a better person. According to Wayne Dyer, efforts to find justification in this life are futile. Try to commit to taking full responsibility for your life and facing every problem that arises with confidence.

2. Take Risks, Dream Bigger, and Expect Big

“Take risks that are greater than what others think is safe. Pay more attention to what other people think is wise. Dream more than others think is possible” - Claude T. Bissell

“Risk more than other think is safe. Care more than other think is wise. Dream more than other thoughts is practical. Expect more than others think is possible” - Claude T. Bissell

Tip: Claude T. Bissell teaches us to always remember to start the day with an enthusiastic attitude, full of enthusiasm, and with positive thoughts in welcoming life's challenges. Take bigger risks by focusing on the opportunities that are in front of your eyes. Never forget to dream big so that you always have strong goals for your desires and hope that you will continue to be successful in every action.

3. Do more and wholeheartedly

“He who does more than he is paid will at some time be paid more than he does” - Napoleon Hill

“The man who does more than he is paid for will soon be paid more than he does” - Napoleon Hill

Tip: Always be willing to work more than what you are paid now, then you will achieve double results in the future. Make a commitment starting today to always give your best, whatever you do every day.

4. Do What Makes You Happy

“Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, then do it. Because what the world needs is enthusiastic people” - Harold Whitman

“Don't ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and to that. Because what the world needs are people who have come alive” - Harold Whitman

Tip: Be aware of your strengths, talents and best interests and don't be tempted to take advantage of other people's strengths and strengths. Focus your energy on being the best. Explore your interests and do things you like sincerely and keep learning. If necessary, ask the opinions of the people closest to you because they may know strengths that you may not be aware of.

5. Never give up no matter what happens

“Never give up when you are still able to try again. It's never over until you stop trying” - Brian Dyson

“Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying” - Brian Dyson

Tip: Sometimes the challenges in our lives can be said to be "ordinary" when compared to the challenges experienced by other people who continue to try harder than us to face bigger problems. All the efforts you make will not be in vain as long as you don't give up and are able to face it until the end. Don't stop trying because you think that your efforts will be in vain. Remember that there are still many people out there who have problems that are more serious than you but never give up on facing them.

6. Be grateful and appreciate the things you have

“Don't take for granted the things closest to your heart. Embrace them as as valuable as your life, for without them life is in vain” - Chinese Proverb

“Don't take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would with your life, for without them, life is meaningless” - Chinese Proverbs

Tip: Always appreciate and don't take for granted the things closest to you such as parents, siblings or friends. Without their support and presence, your life might be empty. Don't forget that success and enjoyment of life can only be achieved because of the support of the people around you. Always respect their existence and give them attention while you still can.

7. Enjoy and Appreciate Changes in Life

“Change is painful, it makes people feel insecure, confused and angry. People want things to be the way they were, because they want an easy life” - Richard Marcinko

“Change hurts. It makes people insecure, confused, and angry. People want things to be the same as they've always been, because that makes life easier” - Richard Marcinko

Tip: Change is something that is sometimes scary, makes us uncomfortable, confused, and difficult to adapt. However, changes need to be made if you want to develop into a better and more resilient person. Often environmental changes are one of the main factors why change sometimes comes without us realizing it and we are required to become someone who is able to adapt. Change now while you still have time, focus your attention on the consequences you will suffer in the future if you don't take action now.

8. Doubt is the Biggest Enemy in Achieving Your Dreams

“The only limit to achieving dreams is our doubts about today. Let us go forward with active and strong faith” - Franklin Roosevelt

“The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today. Let us move forward with strong and active faith” - Franklin Roosevelt

Tip: Doubt is the main enemy of success. Often as humans we feel mediocre because we are unable to explain the doubts in our minds. To become a champion, we need to habituate our mind as an invincible force. Always think positively and carry out the actions you have in mind, whatever the outcome. Don't let doubts become your limitation to developing yourself and making achievements in life.

9. Forgiveness Makes You a Stronger Person

“Weak people are incapable of forgiveness. Forgiveness is the mark of a strong person” - Mahatma Gandhi

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong” Mahatma Gandhi

Tip: The attitude of forgiving those who have wronged us is an attitude possessed by people with strong character. The act of forgiveness is an action by someone to forget someone else's mistake. By forgiving, we have lightened our thoughts, energy and time. Revenge or hatred is something that can hinder our progress in life. Don't be silent and think that time will heal a wounded heart, because you are the only one who has the right to forget and forgive anyone who has wronged you. Be proud of yourself if you are able to forgive others because forgiveness is an act of a strong person.

10. Always make small changes for the better

“Develop an attitude to always be better. Making small differences in action will make a big difference in results” - Brian Tracy

“Develop the winning edge. Small differences in your performance can lead to large differences in your results” - Brian Tracy

Tip: No matter how small the changes you make, as long as they are for the better, they will help your life become better. Making small changes regularly and with sincere effort will make a bigger difference to your life than not making any changes at all. Remember that no matter how small an action that makes your life more positive will have a big impact in the future.

11. Stop Only When You Successfully Beat the Challenge

“It's like wrestling a gorilla. You don't stop when you're tired, you stop when the gorilla is tired” - Robert Strauss

"It's a little like wrestling a gorilla. You don't quit when you're tired, you quit when the gorilla is tired” - Robert Strauss

Tip: When you feel hopeless, remember to never give up before the problem is solved. Take a break but never give up in the face of problems. If you continue to focus on finding a solution to the problem, in the end you will emerge as a winner.

12. Beat Bad Habits and Develop Good Habits

“First we form habits and habits will shape us. Beat your bad habits, or they will beat you” - Dr. Rob Gilbert

“First we form habits then they form us. Conquer your bad habits, or they will eventually conquer you” - Dr. Rob Gilbert

Tip: Bad habits start with an easy opportunity that keeps coming until it eventually becomes a habit. When bad habits form, they will consistently make your life worse. Just like good habits, if you have found and implemented a habit that can improve the quality of your life, then this will continue to make your life more positive.

13. Challenges and Problems Are the Fuel of Success

“A gem cannot be polished without friction, nor can a person become successful without challenges” - Chinese Proverb

“The gem cannot be polished with friction, nor man perfected without trials” - Chinese Proverbs

Tip: Always remember that every challenge and problem you face will make you stronger and more experienced. Every failure and problem that has been experienced is the best teacher in leading to a better life. Accept all the problems that arise in life, don't complain, and always look at the best side of whatever you face. The more problems and challenges you face, the more knowledge and abilities you will gain for self-development towards success.

14. Listen and Always Give Full Attention in Life

“The most basic and powerful way to connect with others is to listen. Just Listen. Perhaps the most important thing we can give others is our attention” - Rachel Naomi Remen

“The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention” - Rachel Naomi Remen

Tip: If you want to be someone special in life, try learning to be a good listener. Listen and understand everyone who tells and speaks to you and always pay attention. This will make them feel cared for and appreciated.

15. Always be polite and kind in life

“Be polite to everyone, even those who act rudely to you. Not because they deserve to be treated well, but because they are good people” - Chinese Proverb

“Treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to you. Not because they are nice, but because you are” - Chinese Proverbs

Tip: A sincere attitude towards others without discrimination will give you great rewards in the future, perhaps many times over. If you want to experience positive actions in life, act politely and kindly towards everyone in life. Remember that good behavior will reflect a good personality.

16. Dare to get out of your comfort zone

"If you want something you've never had in your life. You have to do something you've never done before" - JD Houston

"If you want something in your life you've never had it. You'll have to do something, you've never done it" - JD Houston

Tip: When we want something we have never had. You have to do something new, in other words make a breakthrough. So, the path to achieving this desire will be increasingly open.

17. Problems Give You Strength

"Where there is no struggle, there is no strength" - Oprah Winfrey

Tip: Often when you experience struggles, you feel hopeless. However, it turns out that behind all that, these struggles can provide strength. So be strong when faced with various problems, because that will make you a strong person.

18. Don't listen too much to what other people say

"Don't let other people's opinions drown out the voice within you" - Steve Jobs

"Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice" - Steve Jobs

Tip: Many of us still often listen to other people's words or opinions. Often times, these opinions influence oneself so that what one does is not in accordance with one's heart. Because listening to other people's opinions too often is certainly not good.

19. Don't let other people take away your dreams

“Wake up and make your dreams come true or someone else will hire you to build theirs” - Farrah Gray

"Build your own dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs" - Farrah Gray

Tip: If you have a dream, always try to achieve it. No matter how small the dream, it will certainly provide its own meaning in life. So never give up fighting for your dreams.

20. Always think positively and be grateful

"Start each day with a positive mind and a grateful heart" - Roy T. Bennett

"Start each day with a positive thought and a grateful heart" - Roy T. Bennett

Tip: Not many people realize how important this is. Because when you start the day with positive thoughts and a grateful heart, everything will feel lighter. Even when there are many obstacles ahead, the heart can still feel happiness.

21. Achieve Your Success

"Success doesn't find you. You have to go out and grab it" - Anonymous

"Success doesn't just find you. You have to go out and get it" - Anonymous

Tip: Everyone wants to be successful. However, success cannot be achieved for free, it takes effort to get it. Therefore, don't just wait and hope that success comes to you. Do something, try hard, and achieve that success.

22. Don't be quickly satisfied with what you get

"If we keep doing what we do, we'll keep getting what we get" - Stephen R. Covey

"If we keep doing what we're doing, we're doing to keep getting what we're getting" - Stephen R. Covey

Tip: When we continue to do something or work that we usually do. So, we will also get the same results as what we usually get. Therefore, when you want something more or are not satisfied with what you get now, immediately do something different.

23. Everything Requires Patience

"Don't give up. Great things take time. Be patient" - Anonymous

"Never give up. Great things take time. Be patient" - Anonymous

Tip: Maybe many of you often feel that life is just like this. In fact, the needs or desires they have are never realized. However, never give up. Keep trying and be patient because extraordinary things are waiting for you ahead. What has been done will not be in vain.

24. There Is No Bad Life

"Remember, it's just a bad day, not a bad life" - Anonymous

Tip: If something bad happens to you today, make it a lesson. Never assume that everything happens because your life is always hit by bad luck. Don't always use small things to blame your life because God Almighty never gives a bad life to his people.

25. Always be optimistic

"Optimism is the faith that leads you to achievement" - Helen Keller

"Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement" - Helen Keller

Tip: Many things often make someone feel pessimistic. However, this feeling of pessimism is not good if allowed to continue and can make you worse off and even find it difficult to get back up. Therefore, remember to always be optimistic. Because this is what leads you to the things you want to achieve.

26. Make yourself better than the past

"Don't compare yourself to other people. Compare yourself to the person you were yesterday" - Anonymous

"Don't compare yourself to others. Compare yourself to the person yesterday" - Anonymous

Tip: Never compare yourself with other people because everyone has a different path, not the same. Maybe behind other people's success, there are many obstacles and difficulties that they have overcome. Therefore, compare yourself with "the person you were yesterday" because that way you can become a better person.

27. Don't stay in your comfort zone

"Great things never come from a comfort zone" - Anonymous

"Great things never come from comfort zones" - Anonymous

Tip: Everyone definitely has big dreams and aspirations but it takes effort to achieve them all. Therefore, never stay in one most comfortable point where you feel you will always be safe in that position. Because in reality it's not like that, you have to dare to get out of your comfort zone to take more opportunities.

28. Do everything your best from now on

“Do something today that your future self will thank you for” – Anonymous

"Do something today that your future self will thank you for" - Anonymous

Tip: Never waste your time, do important things from now on. Such as, learning new things, investing, opening a business, and so on. By learning and trying lots of things today, it is guaranteed that there will be no regrets in the future and you will even thank yourself.

29. Be Like a Glowstick

"It's okay to be a glowstick: sometimes we have to break before we shine" - Jadah Sellner

"It's okay to be a glowstick: Sometimes we have to break before we shine" - Jadah Sellner

Tip: The glowstick will light up if it is broken first. In life you often feel lost if you have a lot of problems but that's okay, all of that is normal. These problems will shape you into a better person. Just like a glowstick, you will shine after being broken by various problems.

30. Push Yourself

“Push yourself, because no one else will do it for you” - Anonymous

"Push yourself, because no one else is going to do it for you" - Anonymous

Tip: Push yourself to keep moving forward, becoming a better person, and other good things. Never rely on or hope for other people because no one will push you to progress more than yourself.

31. Reach your Goals

"If your plan doesn't work then change the plan, not the goal" - Anonymous

"If the plan doesn't work, change the plan. But never the goal" - Anonymous

Tip: Everyone definitely has a goal ("goal") that they want to achieve. To achieve this goal, various kinds of plans or road designs need to be made. If the first plan you make doesn't go smoothly, then change it and make a new plan. Never change your goals just to fit "the way".

32. Be a Winner

"A winner is a dreamer who never gives up" - Nelson Mandela

Tip: If you want to be a winner, never give up. Giving up on the situation is not a solution. Fight and look for a way so that you can quickly reach the finish line.

33. Believe in Yourself

"Believe in yourself and you will be unstoppable" - Anonymous

"Believe in Yourself and you will be unstoppable" - Anonymous

Tip: Believing in yourself is a must. This feeling of self-confidence will make you a strong person who never gives up. This feeling will also be your motivation to continue moving forward. So, from now on, don't forget to always believe in yourself.

34. All dreams can be achieved

"If you can dream it, you can do it" - Anonymous

Tip: Have lots of big dreams? Does not matter. If you can dream it, you can definitely achieve it. Never be pessimistic and don't forget to include prayer in every dream you have.

35. Dreams Come True

"All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them" - Walt Disney

“All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them” – Walt Disney

Tip: Everyone has dreams, and so do you. Never doubt and be pessimistic about achieving your dreams because if you have intention and courage, sooner or later you will achieve your dreams.

36. Be the Best

"Whatever you are, be the best you can be" - Abraham Lincoln

“Whatever you are, be a good one” ― Abraham Lincoln

Tip: Wherever, whenever, and with whoever you are now, always be the best. The best in carrying out tasks, the best in attitude, and the best in responding to various problems. If all that has been done, it is not impossible that you will also get the best results.

37. Anything Can Come True

"Anything you can imagine is real" - Pablo Picasso

“Everything you can imagine is real” - Pablo Picasso

Tip: Don't be pessimistic, because everything you can imagine can also come true. Imagine having a car. home, own business? Can! Imagine having a good partner and being able to travel all over the world too! As long as you keep trying and praying.

38. Nothing is Impossible

"Impossible is just an opinion" - Paulo Coelho

“Impossible is just an opinion” – Paulo Coelho

Tip: The word impossible is an opinion often expressed by pessimistic people who only like to stay in their comfort zone. So, for those of you who want to be successful and progress, never enter the word "impossible" in your personal dictionary.

39. Dream Big

"If your dreams don't scare you, they're too small" - Richard Branson

"If your dreams don't scare you, they are too small" - Richard Branson

Tip: Do you often feel like the things you've been dreaming about are far-fetched and impossible to achieve? From now on, stop thinking like that. Big dreams or dreams that seem impossible are worth pursuing. So if you have a dream that is less challenging and doesn't scare you, immediately think about other big dreams.

40. Challenge your Limits

"Don't limit your challenges, challenge your limits" - Anonymous

Tip: Never limit your abilities or the challenges in your life by avoiding them or looking for a comfortable way. From now on, challenge your own limits!

41. Never Stop Trying

“You only fail when you stop trying” Albert Einstein

"You only fail when you stop trying" - Albert Einstein

Tip: Failure will not exist if you keep trying and keep fighting. Therefore, never give up, let alone feel like you have failed before you reach the finish line. Spirit!

42. Success and Failure

"Success is not final, failure is not fatal, what matters is the courage to continue" - Winston S. Churchill

"Success is not final, failure is not fatal, it is the courage to continue that counts" - Winston S. Churchill

Tip: Don't be easily satisfied, those are words that are often said by many people. Because success is not the end of everything, you still have to fight and keep running forward to achieve all your hopes. Likewise failure, failure is not something fatal and can bring you down. In fact, failure will make you better.

43. The Best Way Out of Every Problem

"The best way out is through it" - Robert Frost

"The best way out is always through" - Robert Frost

Tip: Do you often feel like there are too many problems and after going through them there is no way out? Don't give up! Keep praying and trying, sooner or later all the problems will be resolved one by one. Because the best way out is to get through it.

44. Do One At A Time

"Think many things, do one" - Portuguese proverb

"Think of many things, do one" - Portuguese proverb

Tip: Every human being must have more than one desire and ideal. It's okay, think as much as possible about what you want and do it one by one diligently so that you can get everything.

45. Learn from Failure

"If you never fail, you will never try anything new" - Anonymous

"If you never fail, you never try anything new" - Anonymous

Tip: Actually failure is a valuable thing. From failure you can learn and try new things which also lead to success. So, never be afraid of failure. Keep your spirits up and keep going!

46. Must be confident

"Confidence breeds strength" - Anonymous

Tip: Maybe there are still many of us who are still insecure and lack self-confidence. However, did you know that the biggest thing that often holds us back is lack of self-confidence? Therefore, start increasing your self-confidence because self-confidence will give birth to strength.

47. Fearless

"Once you become fearless, life becomes limitless" - Anonymous

Tip: When you change your mindset and live fearlessly, things that may have been (indirectly) obstacles will immediately disappear. You will become braver and life will go on without being hindered by boundaries that are often self-imposed.

48. Good Mind and Heart

"A good mind and a good heart are always a great combination" - Nelson Mandela

"A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination" - Nelson Mandela

Tip: Basically just having a good mind or a good heart is not enough. Because everything in life requires both at the same time. If you only have one of them, life will be more subjective or it could even become a boomerang for yourself. Therefore, from now on, have a good mind and heart in balance.

49. Doing Anything Right

“Quality means doing things right when no one is watching” Henry Ford

"Quality means doing it right when no one is looking" - Henry Ford

Tip: Remain a quality person even if no one sees it. This is one of the things that you must instill. Don't do it because no one is "looking", you are free to do something haphazardly. Do everything right with sincere intentions and this will form the best qualities in you.

50. People Who Never Give Up

"It's hard to beat a man who never gives up" - Babe Ruth

“It's hard to beat a person who never gives up” – Babe Ruth

Tip: You can never beat someone who never gives up. Because people who have an unyielding spirit will not be easily brought down by situations and failure. Therefore, so that you are not easily defeated, be a person who never gives up!

51. Trust the Process

“Hold on to the vision, trust the process” – Anonymous

"Hold the vision, trust the process" - Anonymous

Tip: Never be pessimistic, always believe and adhere to your vision and mission. Go for it, and trust the process. Remember that God Almighty will definitely provide and plan good things. So, always be optimistic!

52. It's All in Your Hands

"If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten" - Anonymous

"If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got" - Anonymous

Tip: There is one value that can be directly obtained from the quotes above. Yes, if you want to get more results then you also have to do something more and get out of your comfort zone. For example, if you are always lazy then you will not get wealth and can only have what you currently have.