COURTESY IN THE MAYA WORLD
1. Don't call someone in a row. If they don't answer, it means they have something important going on. Send a message afterward and ask when is a good time to call.
2 . Don't occasionally order an expensive menu when you are treated. Better, ask the person who is treating you to choose the menu.
3. Don't ask strange questions like this, "Oh, you're not married yet? How old are you?", or "You don't have any children yet? Have you been married for a long time?", "Why haven't you bought a house yet?" That's a personal thing. No need to ask. It's none of our business.
4. Always open and hold the door for people behind us, especially parents or mothers who are carrying children. It doesn't hurt to help make things easier for other people.
5. Be careful when joking. Not everyone can accept our way. If people don't like it, stop. Don't repeat it again.
6. When you receive a message, reply even if you are late or busy. Remember, we're not the only ones who are busy. When you have time, please reply and apologize for the delay.
7. Give praise in front of a crowd, but give criticism in private and in private. Try to add goodness, not open disgrace.
8. Don't make plans in front of those who are not invited or included.
9. Respect a person for his worth, not his title or position. A washerwoman deserves to be served the same as a CEO. They are both human. Our polite service is a reflection of our inner values.
Hope it is useful
SOPAN SANTUN DIDUNIA MAYA
1. Jangan menelpon seseorang berturut-turut. Kalau tidak dijawab, berarti mereka sedang ada hal yang penting. Kirim pesan setelah itu dan tanyakan kapan waktu yang tepat untuk menelpon.
2 . Jangan sesekali memesan menu yang mahal saat ditraktir. Lebih elok, minta orang yang mentraktir untuk pilihkan menu.
3. Janganlah bertanya hal2 janggal seperti ini, "Oh, belum kawin ya? Umur sudah berapa nih?", atau "Belum ada anak yah? Kan sudah lama kawin?", "Kenapa belum beli rumah?". Itu hal pribadi. Tidak perlu ditanyakan. Bukan urusan kita.
4. Selalu buka dan pegangkan pintu untuk orang dibelakang kita, terutamanya orang tua atau ibu yg sedang mengendong anak. Tidaklah rugi membantu untuk memudahkan orang lain.
5. Berhati-hati dalam bercanda. Tidak semua orang bisa menerima cara kita. Kalau orang tidak suka, hentikan. Jangan diulang lagi.
6. Saat menerima pesan, balas walaupun terlambat atau sedang sibuk. Ingat, bukan kita saja yang sibuk. Saat mempunyai waktu, tetap balas dan mohon maaf atas keterlambatannya.
7. Beri pujian di depan orang ramai, tetapi beri kritikan secara pribadi dan saat sendiri. Usahakan untuk menambah kebaikan, bukan membuka aib.
8. Jangan membuat rencana di depan mereka yang tidak diajak atau diikut sertakan.
9. Hormati seseorang pada nilainya, bukan jabatan atau posisi. Seorang tukang cuci layak dilayani sama seperti seorang CEO. Mereka sama-sama manusia. Layanan kita yang penuh adab adalah cerminan nilai dalam diri kita.
Semoga bermanfaat
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